An insight to your inferiority complex

Before starting this blog my first question to you is '' How do you define inferiorness or inferiority complex?  Do you feel uncertain about your skills or anything?  Is it something that makes you less confident about your talent?  Is it really inferiorness or some sort of jealousy when you see a person having better skills compared to you?

   The first step to solve any problem is to interpret the problem in a well structured manner. Then you have to acknowledge the fact that ''Yes I have the problem and I must work on it ''. Every single problem has a solution if you are willing to work on it.

     Now,before finding a solution to your inferiorness  you have to ask a question to yourself . Take time as much as you want but please answer it honestly. The question is '' How many challenges have you accomplished in your life up until now? A challenge can be anything that develops your skills,personality etc. Something which helps you to grow as an individual.

    The reason I am telling you to ask this question to yourself because if you know how to think rather than what to think then you can self interpret the fact that there is always some truth in the thought  that affects you . Kind of you are also accepting in your mind that there is something you lack because of which you feel inferior to that person. You can find hundreds of reasons but all those reasons will come down to the point that this feeling of inferiorness is inward and because you lack skills , you are building this perception of inferiority in your mind.

              You know, in your mind you have build an image of a person that you want to be. Let say that person have a score of 95 out of 100 on the basis of skills that you want to achieve . And then you measure your score and it turned out to be 20. Of course you will feel inferior . But how much work you have done to be that person? How many hours you have given to develop to increase your score upto the level of that person's score ?  These are the questions you have to ask yourself.

    The feeling of inferiority comes because you are not working upon yourself . You just want to feel good and accepted rather than working hard on your goals.That's why you binge watch motivational videos . But when it comes to work on your skills your mind find ways to escape this because it is hard to be punctual and constantly working upon yourself . Your mind constantly wants to seek short term pleasure so that's why it tries as hard as it can to avoid the pain of working hard. But keeping reality alligned and in consideration the only solution of your inferiorness is to work upon your skills . The solution is simple as well as tough. There is no other way . When you are constantly taking challenges  and work upon them ,chances of getting achievement increases. The more you achieve the more your self esteem will grow which helps to grow your confidence . There is no other alternative to this . There are millions of people in this world who are trying to achieve what you want to achieve . You have to be a better version of what you were yesterday and you have to keep working upon your skills to stand at the top of those people.